How to Hygge: The Danish Secrets to a Happy Life

Most of us feel alive and energized during warmer months of the year. But come winter with its gusty winds and freezing temperatures, and our moods swing. Any motivation disappears. Danes who endure some of the most severe winters, however, continue to stay merry. Their secret to a happy life is hidden within traditional hygge practices.

Last updated: December 2, 2024

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Hygge: The Danish secrets to a happy life

Hygge: The Danish Way to Happiness

The Danish word hygge (pronounced “hoo-gah”) has gained popularity around the world, encouraging people to slow down and stay present. This strange-sounding concept implies a feeling of contentment whether you are alone or with your family and friends. Although hygge is often translated as “coziness” and “fun”, Danes suggest a slightly different explanation of it. 

Hygge means creating a warm environment and enjoying simple things in life. For outsiders, the popular Danish way to happiness involves lighting tons of candles. Certainly, it has solid reasons considering that Denmark ranks first in the number of burnt candles per person in the world. But with all due respect to this popular practice and beliefs associated with it, hygge incorporates a much deeper meaning. 

Each of us practices hygge from time to time without even knowing it. Enjoying a cup of homemade gingerbread latte in front of a fireplace on a freezing winter evening is hygge. Having meaningful conversations with your friends or playing scrabbles with family members is nothing else but an act of practicing hygge

In other words, this concept embraces all the small, rather than big, things that contribute to your satisfaction and well-being. Perhaps, this cultural practice is a secret behind Danish happiness and Denmark’s reputation as one of the most content countries in the world. 

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We all practice the “cozy” art from time to time

History of Hygge

While hygge is associated with Denmark, it originated in Norway. To be precise, the word hygge comes from the Old Norse term hygga, which translates “comfort”. Some speculate that the Old Norse word hugr that later became hug and means “consciousness”, “mind”, “soul” lies at the origin of the concept. 

The Danes might have exercised hygge for ages. The first mention of it in Danish writing, however, dates back to the beginning of the 19th century. This period marks development and broad acceptance of the now popular practice. Needless to say, the Danes have embraced all the aspects of hygge and made it a cultural phenomenon ever since. 

With the popularity of such books as The Year of Living Danishly and The Little Book of Hygge: Danish Secrets to Happy Living, the rest of Europe and North America also joined the Danes in their pursuit of happiness and well-being.  

HOW TO HYGGE AT HOME 

Hygge is not just a popular trend in Denmark, it is the simplest, yet most profound way of being content with your everyday life. The Danes don’t wait for holidays or favors from Mother Nature to enjoy their lives. They create and cherish every moment, every hour that they spend with their loved ones, every movie that they watch together, and every æbleskive that they devour during the Christmas season. 

Although hygge is more of a state of mind, the Danes urge you to include the following essentials into your hyggelig

1. Candles

According to the Danish population, candles are a key element of a proper hygge. Every Dane burns on average eight pounds of candles a year. The warm glow of candlelight is especially welcomed in the soul-destroying winter season. The Danes, however, don’t restrict their candle burning rituals throughout the year, reaching out for a candle every time they need hyggelig

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Candles are an essential part of the Danish art of happiness

2. Fireplaces

Joy promoting and stress decreasing abilities of a fireplace goes hand in hand with the essence of hygge. For the Danes, however, it’s also an additional area to apply their passion for all things aesthetic.

3. Danish Sweets and Hot Drinks

Food or its absence creates different kinds of moods. When we are emotionally tired, we long for comfort food. Fruits and salads give us energy while keeping us light. Any celebration asks for some cakes and pasties. Hygge that is essentially a celebration of life also requires specific food. Thus, any mood uplifting dishes such as homemade sweets and hot drinks are a must for a hyggelig atmosphere. 

4. Throw Blankets

Throw blankets, cushions, comfortable sweaters, knitted socks – anything that is comfy and soft is essential for a hygge evening at home.

Focus on Aesthetics

Copying with their long and dark winters, residents of Denmark spend a lot of time indoors. Instead of feeling disheartened or discouraged about it, the locals ensure that their homes look cozy and inviting. A typical Danish house is built and designed with hyggelig in mind. According to the Danish experts, aesthetics play a big part in happiness and well-being. 

On the other hand, Danes don’t go crazy about buying many things at once to make their homes look hygge appropriate. Getting a few key items and mixing and matching them with what you have is the best principle to use here. One thing that the Danes never compromise with is an abundance of lamps. Each of them has its specific position that further contributes to the creation of the hygge environment. 

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Happy and cozy all year round

How to Hygge All Year Round

Winter with its cold weather and long evenings seems to be  ideal for hygge. While this traditional way to happiness indeed helps survive the coldest part of the year, the Danes never stop practicing hygge.

There is space and time for feeling cozy and content with family and friends in spring, summer, and fall. Whether it is an outdoor concert, family picnic, outdoor movie night, the Danes do it the same way – the hygge way.

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